If we know anything for certain, it’s that life doesn’t play fair and we are forced to take blind-sided shots more often than we would like to.
We can choose an offensive position or a defensive one. One takes intentionality and deliberate effort, the other is a default state achieved through indolence.
I prefer to be prepared and conditioned.
To build a buffer.
I prefer the play offense.
My playbook is simple: Do hard things with good people.
Let’s do a quick two-part breakdown.
1. Do hard things.
This morning I went on a 2:30am 8 mile 40lb ruck.
Later today I will workout in Group Class at Veneration.
There are very few things I will face today that are harder than these two things.
In the process of improving my health and fitness, I have also been sharpening my mind to actively build a cushion against hardship. Two birds, one stone.
I experienced this firsthand this week. When my wife was faced with a potentially life threatening situation, I was able to respond calmly and logically, as opposed to reacting panicked and paralyzed (this has most certainly not always been the case). She was more calm and collected than I was – a testament to her training, as well.
2. With good people.
The ruck was completed alongside 3 great men in my life.
The workout will take place in a group of other like-minded working adults led by my professional coach.
I can’t do this life alone.
And if I could I wouldn’t want to.
Sometimes life’s blind-sides are so strong that they shake you in ways that you weren’t prepared for. Having a community of people who will extend a hand when you get knocked down, pull you forward, and carry some of your load is invaluable.
The best part – when you catch your stride again, they’ll be the first the give you a fist bump and celebrate your successes.
Do hard things with good people.
What hard will you choose today?
Who is in the arena with you?
We want to get to know you, understand your goals, and team up to create an action plan to overcome your struggles.
It all starts with a conversation.